And for that matter, light or dark roast?

Check this out, married and unmarrieds alike. (You may have to register, but it’s worth it.)

Did you know these things before you got married? And if you’re not married, do you plan to know them before you get married?

Or do you think mystery is better, and that everything gets figured out in time. Or, better yet, do you think you just know the answers intuitively?

I’m a die-hard question asker and semi-pro interrogator. I’d have no problem asking any of these questions.

But what do you think?

to-do list.

  • Create emotion-themed playlists in iTunes (ANGRY! saaaaaaad…. Happy! Conflicted?)
  • Do stretches before bed again… they worked! What?! (In other words, I enjoyed about 40 minutes more rest by falling asleep more quickly, which is a MAJOR BREAKTHROUGH for the Patron Saint of Insomnia)
  • Find a good carbonara recipe
  • Choose new hairstyle that makes me look neither shaggy, nor uptight, nor cougar-ish, nor trying too hard, nor domesticated
  • Start actually taking useful notes in Moleskines
  • Marry John Legend, even if his lyrics make him sound like a cheating git (not so much on the new album)
  • Look into voice lessons
  • Book time off work in summer to force myself to vacation
  • Make dentist appointment to fix the damn chip on my FRONT TOOTH
  • Finally put endless stream of laundry where it belongs in my room
  • Choreograph interpretive dance to Brian McKnight’s “Back At One”
  • Eat entire roll of SweetTarts
  • Make sudden and horrible realization that tomato products of all kinds make my body unhappy (Seriously. It’s the common thread….!)
  • Plan tomato-free week
  • Laugh at the phrase “tomato-free week”
  • Stop bitching about shoes, be thankful I have them
  • Get over weird obsession with Weather Network